Constitutional prescribing had been present since the conquest of medicinal world of herbs , minerals and alchemia. Homeopathy has a vast knowledge to offer about the constitutional states of human psychology but also pathology.
From the middle calcium layer of the oyster shell comes remedy of very welcoming and appealing personality – Calc Carb. It is characterised by very down to earth, calm, easy going, sociable and genial trades. They tend to be very family and community-minded, being comforted by tradition, religion, history and ability to care for others. They achieve this by accessing doctrine life attitude, systematic approach to everything they do. The drawback to this personality trade is that they can become extremely anxious and stubborn if someone attempts to change their rhythm.
They take pride in their hard work, but also can use their skills as a recommendation for the low self esteem and become easily trapped in workaholism. They don’t like to leave something they are working on before it is done but also expect appraisals, otherwise they feel unappreciated. They may often take on too much, to the point of burning out, feeling overwhelmed, grumpy and ready to shut down.
One of the key words of Calcarea is ‘security’ : the most likely source of anxiety for them is anything which threatens their sense of security, whether in terms of the financial security in their life, or even something new or any change in their life which disturbs their daily or weekly routines. They are not the most adventures types, unless they can plan and mentally prepare themselves of excursions. On the other side, they are the very dependable and trustworthy people, known for their responsibilities and high moral values.
They are highly spiritual and intelligent, especially for more concrete facts and practical knowledge. They are very systematic thinkers, and like to understand how things work together as a whole. Children famously are always asking “why?”, but this question is that much more critical for the Calcarea child who seeks to understand the systematic basis behind all different pieces of knowledge. They find it easy to connect with higher powers/God and interpret world experiences from the perspective of wisdoms in spirituality and religion. They also tune in easily with others in relationships, understand and can respond to feelings of significant others in outmost care and affection.
Lycopodium is typically masculine in its characteristics, as it enables accessing the logical – left side of the brain in pursuit of intelligence, power and control. The Lyc personalities being strongly grounded in their rational mind can be very reasonable, confident, and convincing. Socially, they are extremely adept and versatile, and able to climb to the top of a social or workplace hierarchy. However, the drawback of their personality is beyond charming appearance, as they are self centred, competitive, cunning and manipulative in achieving their version of success.
This in fact, is a subconscious reaction to innate feeling of adequacy and incompetence, as their self esteem is extremely weak. They compensate with their best attributes which is intelligence, logic and perseverance. If they will not access they creative, emotional and feminine side of personalities they can easily turn into boss, dictator, modern times Faro, whereby they live accordingly to rule ‘my way or high way’. Their soul lesson is to develop authentic relationship skills, whereby they can grow in emotional confidence, intimacy and commitment. Should they invest in self development, a completely unknown territory of spirituality and religiousness opens up to their disposal, which can be either genuinely appreciated or egoistically hijacked and converted into business venture ( i.e. book writings, spiritual leadership, etc.)
It can be very challenging for them to commit to a single relationship, which implies honesty about the self and vulnerability. The fear of failure and inadequacy drives them to engage in superficial relationships or sabotaging existing relationships, by withdrawal, emotional unavailability to the point of locking oneself in separate room in order to keep a physical distance from the rest of the family. The best way to help Lyc. in the midst of isolation is to access the rational side of his psyche and realistically negotiate his re-socialisation with close ones. In fact, the pay offs of work success require from his family a lot of emotional support and nurturing at home from a supportive members of the family.
The conversation with Lyc in ‘a state’ requires a special skill set of patience and diplomacy, as they hate being contradicted. Any suggestions of changes in their life or drawing on their faults can easily brings up irritation and excessive anger. This state can obsessively turn into drama, anxiety and self preservation techniques, which include argument, bulling, radicalisation, rejection etc.
Accordingly to Chinese Medicine, the seed of anger lies in liver, where our unprocessed emotions reside and block the digestive flow. This is a definite true for Lyc, as they experience liver irritation, gas or indigestion. In order to stimulate the Lyc’s brain and liver function, the body creates craving for fuel – sweets. They may also be prone to impotence, as an offshoot of their anxieties of feeling inferior, and always trying to compensate by proving themselves.
Quick to excitement and enthusiasm, the Phosophorous personality can be very magnetic and an instigator in social situations, but they can have the challenge of easily burning themselves out by taking on too much at a time. Fortunately, when they are relatively healthy, they can bounce back quickly, even from very brief cat naps.
Phosophorous are highly sensitive and impressionable individuals, as they have highly in-tuned with their environment, whether of the emotions of the people around them, or literally of changes in the weather and atmosphere. The senses can be hypersensitive with the person reacting strongly to odours, touch, sounds, and flavours or textures. They draw on emotional and psychic intelligence for the selfless sake of helping others. They make a fine carers, healers, doctors and parents. On the other side, however, they might loss theirs sense of identify, their own autonomy, merge their personality with the loved ones and become co-dependent. Should they not guar their boundaries they will experience
They drawn for socialising and energy of people around them. Subconsciously they choose to be a people pleasers, or entertainers, in order to always keep the spirits up of those around them. Their underlying anxiety of being alone motivates them to be around other people, and motivates them to further practice of sympathy to the feelings and experiences of those around them. The reaction of environment could vary, hence Pho’s soul lesson is to draw a boundaries, mature from naivety and spiciness.
Emotional intelligence, an eloquent communication stile and personal expression, are core to the Phos personality, and fuel the depth of their relationships with love ones. If Phos guard their boundaries, they have a potential to enrich their partners in life of adventure, creativity, appreciation to art and spirituality. Connection to higher source/God had never been an issue to Phos, even during the childhood.
Phosphorous children are very psychic, and can confess to seeing Angels or other entities. They are also recognised as very curious, active, bright and talkative, and often mistaken with ADHD. Their self expression later develops in artistic appearance, expressive personality and need to be in the centre of attention. In childhood Phos would experience lung issues, such as bronchitis, prolonged cough and colds. Later on in life, Phos experiences anxiety issues, especially fear and hypersensitivity; nervous and circular system weakness expressed often as dizziness, numbness, and heart palpitations, prolonged bleeding or clotting issues.
Primarily, Siliceas display characteristics of refinement, caution, and they usually possess strong ethical sensibilities. In character they are clear and transparent – guileless, honest, sincere and open. Sil will generally hold very strong opinions, yet rarely impose them on others, unless the situation absolutely demands it. The rule number one in that situation is not to argue with Sil, as their sharpness might lead you to self doubts.
On the outside, they can be shy and very easy-going, even acquiescent, unless someone cross Sil’s boundaries and turn them in the most stubborn or righteous stance over an issue. This is because Sil has a strong sense of justice and know how to stay true to themselves.
Although Sil will appears to have low confidence they hold strong sense of the self, which can surface in times of rejecting and advice or correction of their behaviour. Their underling fears relate to feeling like a failure and may be compensated with workaholism. Their work can easily breach the thin line between self expression and perfectionism. They can become very self critical , but this characteristic leads them to produce very high quality work in whatever field they are engaged in. They are not confident or well prepared for changes, and they can jeopardise new opportunities as a reaction to anticipatory anxiety.
The soul lesson for Sil is self acceptance, confidence and acquiring innate fears ad self doubts. Initially timid, hesitant, indecisive, naïve and impressionable, they are easily influenced and persuaded by others, but as they develop and mature, constantly learning from experience, forming their own beliefs, opinions, morals and values, ever building their crystal structure, they are imbued with strength and resolve. Sil in her best form becomes intuitive of the motives and traits of others, but also ca posses high see of the self-awareness and self-knowledge. Sil posses potential to extends beyond the physical world as they true spiritual IQ enables them to access the vibrations of unseen realms by means of love, empathetic perception, intuition or telepathy.
They can be quite shy by nature, and need to be encouraged to go out and connect with life more. As children they create little challenge for their parents, and will often be “late bloomers”, who are not the first to leave the family home. They gravitate much more to close one-on-one relationships, rather than being the “life of the party” who is friends with everyone. Though growing up, they can build on being reserved and develop determination and academic focus. They study, and they over-study, building an intellectual structure which will earn them social respect ad academic gratification.
Sil’s constitution has tendencies towards conditions such as headaches, caused by brain over activity. Physically they can be petit and show reoccurring issues of mal-absorption of nutrients, low resilience and immunity. Silicea in the treatment of: unhealthy skin which festers from the least injury; boils, acne, fistulae; splinters; thickened scars; weak, brittle, or thickened and unsightly nails; thin hair which splits, breaks and falls; loss of bone density -osteoporosis; infections (osteitis , osteomyelitis) or overgrowth of bone (exostoses, osteophytes and osteoarthritis).
The remedy Pulsatilla is made from the wind flower, and this is the very key to its personality. Puls approaches any change with the flexibility like and can be as changeable as a prairie fire. Although in time of adversity they can find opportunities, on the other side, Puls are moody and lacking in decisiveness. Their lack of assertiveness make them vulnerable, highly impressionable, and easily influenced.
The Pulsatilla constitutional type draws the intelligence from the inner wisdom, form gut feelings and emotional literacy. Their emotional mind works through multiple connections and associations, enabling them deep and genuine relations. Puls are very warm, extremely sweet and very affectionate and nurturing in temperament which makes the irresistible. At the same time they are of a shy nature, and rarely exhibit assertiveness or autonomy in relationships. Their partner would only know , if there is something wrong with them because Puls become irritable, jealous or cry out of feeling unloved and alone.
Their biggest insecurity is the feeling of being loved, and they will go to great lengths to either secure or hold onto a relationship, even on expense of own respect or safety. However, their sweetly seductive skill enables them to manipulate environment. They are extrovert, they weep easily, and elicit a feeling of sympathy with the innate talent to play a victim role. The attention and any form of sympathy enables Puls to process their feelings explicitly.
Puls are very socially adept and adaptable, and are very natural networkers and connectors. They are usually fairly organized, and good at working on highly detailed projects. Conversely, they make extremely loving parents, and always give a lot back to their closest family members and friends. Their manipulative nature, however elicit guilt and may in effect create resentment and case the relationships.
As the wind flower easily blows back and forth in the breeze, all aspects of Pulsatilla are highly changeable, whether it is emotional, mental of physical. They have tendency to illness related to the reproductive organs, such as uterine fibroids, menstrual pains, prostate cancer. Generally, they have a tendency to become overheated, and have a need for getting outdoors into the fresh air, or at least having a window open.
Sulphur is predominantly male archetype, and lives directly in the “here and now”, which usually makes them very charming, or annoying to those around. A healthy sulphur is full of life, and are usually always in motion. Sulph is an intellectual type, creative and artistic flair. Filled with curiosity and an adventurous spirit, possessed of a burning desire to investigate and analyse all things. There is passion in the volcano, and in Sulphur. It can be manifested in all facets of his life – be it sport, politics, science, philosophy or religion. Their cutting edge, innovative and entrepreneurs creativity however, is really appreciated by mainstream. However, Suph’s inner self righteousness and confidence does not allow for feelings of failure, imprecation or rejection.
Sulp does not suffer from weak ego, o the contrary it ca deepen into a state of selfishness, pride, narcissism, arrogance, haughtiness, a lack of consideration, appreciation and gratitude. In relationships Sulp can be invariably critical, irritable, intolerant ad domineering. They are not shy and do not suffer from self-consciousness, nor are they easily embarrassed. They can be painfully blunt and forthright, often lacking in tact. Often shrewd about others and hypercritical, they remains uninformed about the self and distant from spirituality and self development. The Sulp soul lesson in this world is to find ways to ground the self, distinct between reality and own visions as well as enquire social skills. They might appear autistic in some aspects of relational engagement, as the simply drift to the world of their own.
Because of their spiciness, it is imperative that their parent and partners draw clear boundaries around the sulphur’s world, in line with their age and stage of development. All children have the same inner plea as do Suph, which are to be treated as an individual, and allowed to pursue their own interests. The sulphur child is just much more vocal about it, and the least willing to conform to external expectations. It is often found, that Sulph children are wrongly laboured with ADHD or any new disability condition by mainstream school system.
If Sulp is not mentally active and into a mischief - what can happen to them is sheer laziness and procrastination. In childhood they are often underachievers, and in adulthood the typical couch potato, or an armchair philosopher, who has an answer for all the world’s problems, but never lifts a finger to help and choosing shortcuts This state can deepen into fundamentalist and highly superstitious believes. In adulthood the Supl state is represented by: the complexes, prejudices, dissatisfaction, paranoia, selfishness, resentment of authority, rebelliousness, untidiness, lack of hygiene. adolescents.
The expulsive power of the Sulp psyche is compelling also in physical realm, It reveals the remarkable ability of Sulphur to drive toxins and internal disease outwards onto the surface of the skin (red, itchy and inflamed eruptions). Sulphur women are troubled by hot flushes and sweats. They are inclined to chronic catarrhal discharges from the nose, ears and eyes. These are conveniently smeared off on their sleeve
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